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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It's too complex to answer on a message board I think.

It's not pathetic to want your family intact.

She definitely may be temporarily insane. I know a lot of people who do that kind of stuff. However, their character had never been the strongest even when they were acting "right." If that makes sense. So I'm not sure I would trust her even if she came to her senses.

And a big part of it deals with what may have been wrong in the marriage before. If there is something identifiable  and it can be fixed, that may make a difference in the success of any reconciliation.

But the bottom line is that you are in limbo now, which sucks. And emotionally dependent on wondering what she may do. I'd try to refocus your attention and emotions on you, if possible. Therapy can help. I know everyone suggests that. But it really can. Don't stall out in life because she's being a jerk. Remember she's hurting your kids too. I personally don't take kindly to that. Move forward with dignity and strength, and make a good life for yourself and kids. If she comes crawling back, you will be the one with the power to decide whether it's worth reconciling. [/quote]

This is what my instinct tells me. Move on with dignity. I hadn't realized she was unhappy. Since I learned I worked hard to no avail. It's like she just doesn't care. Really. Made my head spin. Thanks. [/quote]

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