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[quote=Anonymous]You and your DH need to have a big sit down about this NOW. He needs to be saving for retirement, and you need to be paying off student loans. After those two things are met, is there extra cash leftover which you feel ok sending his parents? If so, then set a LIMIT on how much monthly they can have. The tough part will be your DH putting up boundaries. It sounds like he never has. His parents have been manipulating him his entire life, this will be a hard pattern to break. You need couples counseling NOW. Do not have kids until you two have resolved this in a way where you BOTH feel ok about it (how his parents feel is not relevant). You need a neutral 3rd party to help you navigate this. [/quote]
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