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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm a "beautiful woman" and I have a number of close male friends. If they think about having sex with me, they've certainly never made that known to me. I think that several of them are quite attractive, but I don't want to sleep with every attractive person I see.

My question is how sex gets in the way of you being friends with someone? Is it the hope that maybe she will want to have sex with you at some point? Are you unable to recognize her positive traits that are not related to her sexual desirability?[/quote]

You're not friends with these men. You're merely acquaintances, so it's not a problem for anybody.[/quote]

How am I "not friends" with these men? How are you defining "friends" for the purposes of your question?

One of them is someone I work with. We talk about work things. We talk about personal things. We have lunch together sometimes. We save each other seats at meetings. We know each other's spouses. He knows my kid (they don't have any kids yet).

One of them is someone I've known for close to 20 years. He came to my wedding. I'm in his wedding later (best man, his sister, one male friend, and me). I stay in his guest room when I go to NYC. My husband has also stayed in that guest room (with me and without me). I know his parents, his siblings, and his friends.

How are those people not friends? [/quote]

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