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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Most people choose where to live based on two things: schools and commute. I find it odd that you have essentially set those two critical things aside in favor of living life without a mortgage.

I think any of your options is better than killing your husband gradually with a crappy commute and ensuring your kids get a sub-par education.[/quote]

We only recently became aware of concerns about the school quality -- particularly at the higher levels.  We have lived in this area for 15+ years -- prior to marriage.  At that time, it made sense for commute (which was at a metro-stop location for both of us).  8 yrs ago, DH's commute changed, but DH wasn't complaining and still doesn't want to be the reason for everyone to move.  If it wasn't bothering him, it wasn't bothering me.  But, with recent investigation on the schools, plus negative input from some (not all), we began looking at other options.  I now see his commute as crazy and very detrimental.  But my life is great here!  And we don't feel financial pressure.  In my head it makes sense to move, but then I think about the reality of moving and the stress that puts on everyone + the significant cost and I wonder if we should be trying to make it work. Will we really get a better education at a "god school"?  Is it worth the cost (financially and in loss of easy life super close to amenities, less crowded area)?[/quote]

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