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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]i'm an only child and my closest friend is like a sister to me. she lives in london, so i don't see her often, but we talk/text every day. about six months ago she met a guy on a work trip (she is married, two children) and spent the night in her hotel room - she completely blacked out, had no recollection of the evening, and although she drinks a lot, i didn't think that she had consciously decided to sleep in his hotel room because she was absolutely distraught afterward. said she wanted nothing to do with him, etc. then several weeks later she tells me she has been talking to him because her husband isn't giving her the attention she needs and she thought she might have feelings for this other guy (who is also married). i, of course, am not supportive of this and tell her i don't think wanting attention is a good enough reason to cheat on her husband but i agree they are going through a hard time. long story short, their relationship becomes much more strained because her husband's mother died and he basically was too drunk to get out of bed for several weeks. she ends up meeting up with the other guy for a THIRD time and lies to me about it. I only found out because she is now pregnant with her third child and she confessed that she had slept with the other guy when she saw him six weeks ago (though its not his). i'm livid and also disappointed - she's acting insane and trashy. i don't really know how to be close with her right now. she is also someone who projects this "perfect" image to the world via social media which drives me insane for some reason.

anyway - any advice? do you think i can compartmentalize some of this a bit and support her right now through her pregnancy? i just feel like this is a toxic mess and i don't want to be a part of it. [/quote]
Why continue with such a shitty person??[/quote]

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