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[quote=Anonymous]I went through this with a friend. She wasn't married yet but he was. She was the LAST person I would have ever thought would get involved with a married man. She got pregnant, miscarried, and finally moved on. She met her husband, they got married, and a few years into her marriage she found out first guy was getting a divorce. She called me all the time with "what do I do." I'm like, "what do you MEAN what do you do?" After I finally connected the dots that she only ever called me when her husband was out of town (so she could talk about the first guy) I told her I won't scold her and act all judgey but I also won't be a participant and that she couldn't do that anymore. She eventually recommitted to her marriage and let this fantasy go, and there was no lasting damage to our relationship, which remains strong 20+ years later. [/quote]
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