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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]What's your relation to the person and why are they asking?

I do sometimes wish I could get honest feedback from people but I'm too afraid to ask.
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My gf. I made a list of things I don't like. She identified a series of things in my list that she does and personalized the list, adding a few more things I have at some point said. Too late. I edited her list to bring clarity to the few which I had never observed her as being the source but did give her a clear picture that there are things we humans find annoying like being cut in mid-sentence, interrogation-type questioning, excess negativity, and a few more. Well, she has deemed my answers are total contempt and hate for her. When she complains about me is called expressing her feelings but when I do it is hate. WTF?

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That stinks.  So, your original list was a generic list of things you don't like that wasn't supposed to be about her?

Maybe make a generic list of things you love and make sure about 90% of them apply to her and show her that?
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Ok, the list. I have been reading a book on Dominance & submission by Michael Makai. I'm not trying to be a Dom, just reading to lear about the dynamic. Anyway, I came up with with my personal list of protocols which addresses some of those real life annoyances like those already mentioned and some more. You know, not the usual dumb shit Doms make their submissives do like standing on one leg for ten minutes.  :lol:  I even included bad traits I myself exhibit on my list. Well, I shared my list with her and you already know what happened next.

I should now compile a things I do love about her.[/quote]

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