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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]What's your relation to the person and why are they asking?

I do sometimes wish I could get honest feedback from people but I'm too afraid to ask.
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My gf. I made a list of things I don't like. She identified a series of things in my list that she does and personalized the list, adding a few more things I have at some point said. Too late. I edited her list to bring clarity to the few which I had never observed her as being the source but did give her a clear picture that there are things we humans find annoying like being cut in mid-sentence, interrogation-type questioning, excess negativity, and a few more. Well, she has deemed my answers are total contempt and hate for her. When she complains about me is called expressing her feelings but when I do it is hate. WTF?

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That stinks.  So, your original list was a generic list of things you don't like that wasn't supposed to be about her?

Maybe make a generic list of things you love and make sure about 90% of them apply to her and show her that?
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