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Reply to "What do I need to know about marrying a man with an ex and shared custody of kids?"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You need to know how cool she'll be with you. What if she's dropping off the kids to you and he's not there? What if your wedding is on her custody day and she doesn't want to let the kids attend? It is so, SO important you have a decent relationship with the ex. [/quote] Hmmmm I'll disagree. The ex may not want that. She might not be openly hostile but she probably won't be BFF with the new wife especially if she is not remarried herself. Mostly OP's job would be to not hinder or harm the existing relationship the exes and the kids have. She doesn't need to be front and center and make this about her. She needs to be kind, mature, amenable, flexible and be happy to stay in the background for the most part. Love the kids but not try to be mom. Respect mom and support dad.[/quote]
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