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[quote=Anonymous]There will be times you are resentful because you feel you are "sharing" your family. Resources for your kids will be diverted to his. You may not get a say in how they're used. The wife can and will call at times you would rather she not. Sometimes she will drive you nuts and you'll have to just smile and shut your mouth because what's he supposed to do about it? It may be hard at first to feel connected to the kids. It was for me. I love my stepson now but the first few years were so much harder than I thought. It was trying to be around someone else's kid so much and have to love him like my own while also having no real say on so much. Is it worth it? Yes. Will it break you down and force you to become a different, bigger, more accepting person? Yes. Is it difficult? Very. [/quote]
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