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[quote=Anonymous][quote]But they will call me and want to have long chats and keeps saying that they miss our old relationship and we should talk more often and they ask when I'm going to visit them (we don't live in the same state)[/quote] They are asking of you - your time, your money spent to visit, your support. They are asking of you. I don't hear focusing on what they can do for you - I don't hear them apologizing, or having genuine remorse. You said they don't, so Op, they aren't there yet, not remorseful OR this could backslide into manipulation (emotional manipulation) - them needing you to fulfill their needs. And if you don't, they way they want, in the amount they want, once again you will be the bad person.[/quote]
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