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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think some of the PPs are being hard on you OP. My sibling is very much the same way, but lives on their own and has been working full time for some years. However, they don't date much and don't engage in any activities where they could meet new friends. I know it's not any of my business, but I love my sibling dearly and it is hard to watch them struggle. I know that they would like a bigger group of friends, a partner, children someday, and a higher paying job, but they don't take any steps to make those things happen. If they didn't want those things then I wouldn't be so sad/worried, but I know they do so its hard to watch them just drift. I know there is nothing I can do except love and support them, it I have noticed them pulling a way a little bit each time I "achieve a milestone" (according to our society) like get a graduate degree, get married, have a kid, etc. So, sadly no advice, but I hear you.[/quote]

You sound kind and mindful of your sibling's issues. OP sounds like she's asking lots of questions and judging her sister for not making the choices op approves of. Do you really think asking someone with social anxiety why they don't date more/what happened to that guy/why not use a dating app/however she wants to phrase it is helpful? I promise it isn't. [/quote]

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