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[quote=Anonymous]DH had mentioned weeks ago about his sister maybe coming in to town to see a band, and then it never came up again so I assumed it wasn't going to happen. In the meantime, we made plans with several different friends this weekend (some have been cancelled and rescheduled multiple times). And then Thursday SIL calls and says she's coming this weekend. I don't know if she made firm plans with DH and he forgot to tell me or if she was being flaky and didn't finalize her plans. DH was just like "oh I didn't remember if/when/whatever". Anyway - is it rude of me to keep all of our weekend plans and not include her? We're either going to someone's house or already have restaurant reservations so I can't just add her. I feel so awkward but I don't think it's my fault because I had no idea she was coming until yesterday!! She's lucky we did laundry earlier this week because otherwise stuff would still be dirty from my ILs last visit (which I also only had a weeks notice of....gr). My family is far away so we almost always have advance notice unless there's someone coming for a last minute business trip. I'm just so annoyed by all this, it puts me in a weird position and esp when the in laws are in town, unable to make other plans or go run errands without seeming rude. [/quote]

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