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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]"It didn't work?" What do you mean? He doesn't have to be fully erect for either of you to have an orgasm. 
I think you need to explore more adventurous sex that depends more on emotional connection than perfectly-working genitals. As people get older, their bodies tend to change, and you've got to roll with it. You've got to start talking openly with him about this and its effect on you, but you've got to see sex as more than just PIV sex. He's got fingers? A tongue? Seriously, the events you have described are not the end of an erotic life.  You need to tell him you need to feel wanted by him and it bothers you that he does not care about your lack of date nights. You have to tell him this and be careful how you word it so what comes across is not some kind of accusation, but a sincere wish to get closer to him. [/quote]

i am the second ED poster.  our DHs shut down and shy away from sex because they perceive inadequacies.  no matter how much we as their DWs try to build them up, they often times can't get over themselves.

so i ask you this: why is this the DW's responsibility?  why can't our DH's take responsibility for this and address this?  this is just another example of men not talking about their feelings (see other thread).  again, we as DWs have to manage our DH's own feelings of shortcoming because they can't handle it themselves.  and we are left in a largely sexless relationship.  [/quote]

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