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[quote=Anonymous]My son was a baby when my ex and I split. We weren't married, but to my son the result of our split is the same. It was very very difficult for him to go between homes as an infant and toddler, and the transitions were hell on me (mom) because ds saved all his emotions for me. Now at 7, ds is used to it and transitions are easier (but still hard sometimes), and ds misses his dad when he's at my house and vice versa. Ds also asks all the hard questions about why we don't live together, and why we had a baby if we weren't trying to, and why can't we live together, and why do we live far apart, and why does he live with me and not dad, and why can't the schedule be different. I don't wish we had waited, because my ex was abusive and I had to leave, but my son lacks all context for the relationship. I also don't doubt when people say it gets harder when the kids are older, but it's far from easy when the kids are babies/toddlers. [/quote]
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