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[quote=Anonymous][quote]OP here - thanks. Part of me knows that but I still feel so sad and hurt that she wouldn't care about me or the baby. For all she knows I could have had some complications and still be in the hospital. Wouldn't you even want to know if your child and grandchild were okay? I shouldn't be surprised that she can't move past her own anger but it's still shocking to me as a parent myself.[/quote] I mean this kindly. You're still ascribing 'normality and rationality' to her. She's not. I'm sure you have plenty of examples of the years - enough to know my now the kind of person she is. Yet, you're still expecting her to behave in a way that is contrary to who she is. You need to stop hoping/expecting/desiring her to behave in a way that is healthy and move on. I'm sorry. [/quote]
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