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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I agree with the PP that said it takes more than sperm to be a father. I think a lot depends on how your DH was informed of this and his relationship with his father.  Did his father know?   How is your DH's relationship with his father?  How did the news come out - in a moment of anger? Did his father know all this time? If his relationship with his parents is already troubled, I think this would be very difficult  Counseling could help you both better learn to deal with it.  Hugs.[/quote]

He's got  a good relationship with his dad.   Which is one reason  I think he's having  a hard time with this because his dad has known for  many years and he feels lied to.

MIL says his bio father did not know but DH doesn't believe her because she put up a fuss about telling him  his name and other basic details.

None of this came out in a good way.  
I have suggested talking to someone just  as a neutral 3rd party to help  sort through  the emotions, but so far  no one is willing to go.

I know he has absolutely every right to deal with this the way he wants to, and I'm trying to respect that.]
I just know how much he loves his family, he's truly a family guy and I'd hate to see that get thrown away for his sake and the sake of our kids.[/quote]

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