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[quote=Anonymous]My DH refused until it became clear that I might actually leave him, and it became clear that our lack of communication was hurting how we make decisions about our child. But sadly by the time he got to that point, I was already kind of done. Just a year before I felt much more positive about rebuilding our relationship, but one more year of a bad relationship drained that away. My impression is that DH earlier on viewed himself has having a bit of an upper hand in that I wasn't going anywhere, and he thought that I was going to cry in therapy about wanting more of a commitment from him. Now that my own commitment has waned and he knows I'll walk, he's a little more willing to come to the table. But whereas a year ago I could have sat honestly in therapy and talked about my hopes and dreams and love for him, it will be REALLY hard to do that now. Doesn't sound great, does it ... moral of the story: don't put it off. [/quote]
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