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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The thread about comfort level with DH's female friends got me thinking.  There is a special place in hell for women who cheat with married men with young kids.  I'm not excusing the husbands' behavior; they are unquestionably responsible, but there are two players in every affair.  Maybe a 20 year old girl gets some kind of pass for being clueless about what new parenthood (or marriage or adulthood) is like.  But holy heck, ladies, how about a little solidarity with our fellow moms?  You may have your own baggage to deal with, but if you're even close to a boundary with a married recent father, couldn't you just pause for a minute to remember yourself as a new mom, have some empathy for his wife, and not make her already challenging few years complete misery?[/quote]

There are 3 players. The wife usually has some play in the affair as well and there are usually issues in the marriage. The husband shouldn't cheat, but rarely is the marriage without issues and RARELY is the wife an innocent party in the marital issues. [/quote]

What a load. No the victim of a cheater shares no blame. No different than someone wearing a short skirt and asking for it bs, or an abuser saying his wife deserved to be hit.  As for the other woman, she is also to blame because she had NO BUSINESS being in their marriage.  She is just as guilty.
The husband has a choice to get counseling, compromise or divorce. Cheating is not a option. I would like to see cheaters come down hard in courts, if it's proven.  Especially when it destroys children's lives etc.[/quote]

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