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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]A few days ago I had a hunch that my boyfriend was still active on OKC. I reactivated my account and saw that he was online earlier that day. I confronted him and he stated that he browses an OKC reddit forum, but hasn't responded to any messages since December. I didn't feel comfortable with the answer as my intuition tells me that he's not serious about our relationship. I let him know that he's free to date others now because of the active profile, but he said he deactivated the profile(or blocked me) and wants to continue to date. [b]We're both 30 and met around Thanksgiving. We officially became a couple on Valentine's Day after a romantic weekend trip. What should I do? I can't get it out of my mind that he may have been looking to keep his options open[/b]. Also, I got kind of bothered that he referred to me as a friend and not his girlfriend while talking to a server at a restaurant.  [/quote]

Yet you sound about 13.

He's not that serious about you. He's keeping his options open.

Which is what you should has been doing back in Thanksgving. please tell me you didn't stop dating other guys  in November?

For whatever reason you don't find him trustworthy, so move onto someone you can before you're 35 or 38 and having to start over " because he's not who I thought he was."

And this time , please date a few guys before you  find someone you want to be exclusive with and that should happen organically not some Valentine's day trip you can post about on  FB or Intsagram. Beyond  a trip what has he done that has warranted being your boyfriend?  Hint I don't mean gifts. What about him spells long-term?
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I stopped dating other people in mid December. We started hanging out more often at the beginning of the New Year. Actually spent everyday of NYE weekend together. I met his sister during that time as well(his other family is not local). He doesn't really buy me many gifts as I value experiences over things, but so far we've taken 2 overnight trips together and he's accompanied me to a couple of medical appointments (I have some chronic conditions). He has done a lot of research and talked to my doctors about my conditions so he has a better understanding of what to expect. He's financially stable(he voluntarily showed me his accounts). Someone that is patient and understanding is important to me due to my health as flare ups can happen anytime. 
Also he rearranged his work schedule so that we can have the same days off. So we are together at least twice a week. [/quote]

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