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[quote=Anonymous]Is she getting enough one on one time with you and DH at home? She could be continuing to act out if it gets a reaction/attention from you - for kids, negative attention is better than not enough focused attention. Try time-in: 20 minutes a day with you or DH in an area/room with no distractions (sib not in there), no phone, etc. Ask DD what she wants to do. You give her your undivided attention and participate in an activity of her choosing for 20 min. Don't ask any questions/don't try to teach anything, just go along with what she wants to do (even if it's playing a game where she changes all the rules for example). Rather than asking questions, make observations/narrate what you see her doing.[/quote]
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