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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Presumably you're an adult - you don't need their consent to marry. I'd tell them you've told them the truth and that you're sorry they don't believe you, then move forward with your life. If they choose to join you that's great, and if not, that's on them. [/quote] I think this although it's easier said than done. I think it's weird that family members would accuse you of cheating. Maybe they just worry that you're on the rebound. Also, is it one particular family member espousing this view? I'd sit down and have a one-on-one chat. Let this person know that once and for all that you didn't know your fiancé while you were married and that gossiping/casting aspersions about your relationship is wrong and hurtful to you, him, and your kids. Tell them to cut it out. I wouldn't share this with your fiancé unless absolutely necessary. I think it would be unnecessarily hurtful.[/quote]
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