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[quote=Anonymous]My husband said this -- he loved me but wasn't attracted to me -- after his cheating was uncovered. We had a strong emotional connection and a healthy sex life, but our marriage didn't survive because he thought he deserved someone who looked the way he wanted them to look. It's been sad for me reading the various threads here of people not being intimate and/or not even liking each other but sticking it out for whatever reason trying to make things better, and thinking about all we had together -- few arguments and those we resolved quickly and easily, lots of laughter and fun and great sex, money to travel, common interests, great friends -- and how none of that mattered to him at the end of the day. And now I may never find someone who that stuff does matter to that I can share a life with. Anyway, all of that is my stuff. If your wife feels a connection to you (and you to her) and all else is good, I wouldn't dwell on this point. [/quote]
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