Toggle navigation
Toggle navigation
Home
DCUM Forums
Nanny Forums
Events
About DCUM
Advertising
Search
Recent Topics
Hottest Topics
FAQs and Guidelines
Privacy Policy
Your current identity is: Anonymous
Login
Preview
Subject:
Forum Index
»
Relationship Discussion (non-explicit)
Reply to "Advice for dealing with revelation from spouse?"
Subject:
Emoticons
More smilies
Text Color:
Default
Dark Red
Red
Orange
Brown
Yellow
Green
Olive
Cyan
Blue
Dark Blue
Violet
White
Black
Font:
Very Small
Small
Normal
Big
Giant
Close Marks
[quote=Anonymous]I'm 100 percent not my husband's physical type, nor is he mine. We have a strong emotional attraction, though, and we're both pretty sexual, so that helps. I won't lie--we've gone through some rough times where his eye wandered and he felt he was missing something being with me. I've battled in myself the feelings of insecurity and not being valued, and the kind of shame we can feel about our looks not being good enough, until at one point I decided, fuck it, you take me as I am or go find someone who looks the way you prefer. And I told him straight out, he's not my type in looks either, but I'm not chasing other men and I need and appreciate the emotional attraction we have, which channels into sex. I also told him that we'll be increasingly saggy, wrinkly, and gray, and I intend to be having good sex as long as I live and am able. But I won't be interested in sex with him if we lose our emotional connection, or if he's no fun in bed. [/quote]
Options
Disable HTML in this message
Disable BB Code in this message
Disable smilies in this message
Review message
Search
Recent Topics
Hottest Topics
