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[quote=Anonymous]Hello, he's not giving you what you want or tending to your every need. You say he worships the ground you walk on but he dumped you to be with an ex and now leaves you feeling annoyed and disappointed. Your needs are not being met. 
 
Newsflash: You want to be loved and feel secure without having to ask and beg for it. This is a normal human need.

DTMFA. Seriously. I am sorry, but get yourself out of this and get yourself into some therapy to understand these abnormal relationship dynamics. I am guessing you have some messed up family-of-origin issues that make you feel you are not deserving of love and that is why you put up with this kind of crap. Your mention of "roller coaster" and "when I am at my worst" make me wonder if borderline personality disorder is at play here, which I don't say in any disparaging way--I'm just mentioning it as the kind of thing that can be identified and helped tremendously with a trained therapist.

Your expectations are not too high. Go off by yourself and learn to love yourself with the help of a therapist. I bet after that you'll meet a guy who gives you love freely. [/quote]

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