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[quote=Anonymous]Our marriage sucked the first 6-7 months of our child's life.  It was horrible.  Screaming, emotional abuse on both sides.  I couldn't get help for disabling PPD ("it's just hormones").  I was so full of rage that I couldn't stand to see him, and of course no one even told me that was PPD.  I thought I was a bitch and so did he.  When I figured it out, I begged him for help because I didn't have the energy and he basically laughed and said there was nothing wrong with me other than that I was a bitch.

Two and a half years later, I'm finally better, but I can't move past his comments.  I tried counseling and objectively I know it wasn't me - it was a mental illness - but he made a comment last week that showed he still believes it was something in my personality.  He told me I never apologized, exvept to blame it on a disease I didn't even have.  Do I even have a chance of convincing him that was [b]not me?[/b]  I just cannot force the words, "I am sorry for being horrible to you" out of my mouth without appending something about PPD to it.[/quote]

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