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[quote=Anonymous]OP, 15 years ago I was a PM at a well known company. I had female leadership mentors. Then I had our first. I stayed home. Had our second and third and continued staying at home. Finances were tight, but me staying home was our priority. I was a full time Sahm for 7 years. Then I was an adjunct 1 day a week at a local college, then it became 3 days a week. About 12 hours of work a week. Today I teach about 16 hours a week/32 weeks a year. Our kids are older ES/MS. I'll keep my very part time work until the youngest begins college. It's what we want. DH asked me to look for full time work. I did. I was offered, he asked me to not take it because who would be there for the kids after school? Sports? Doctors?  What about summer? I'm not kidding. These were his concerns. I said ok.

Our family is our priority. It's all about choices. If we ever split, I would assume/expect alimony and I bet he'd oblige willingly. Whenever I bring up full time, the kids ask me not to and DH says it's my choice, but then in private tells me he's glad I'm usually home. [/quote]

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