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[quote=Anonymous]Yes, OP, my mother is exactly like this. Absent regarding me and anything to do with my kids, always focusing, doting on, and talking about whoever she favors at the time. She's 75 now and has never and will never change. My advice to you is accept this, grieve, and start being your own loving mother to yourself. She doesn't act this way because there's anything wrong with you. I'd say my mother has a lot of NPD going on, with a streak of BPD behaviors. These labels really only matter in that they can help you find support and understanding online, because as you read the web sites and forums, you find so many who share the experience, and you can start to see it wasn't YOU, it was and is HER, so you can start detaching a bit and work on healing. Probably by no small coincidence, my husband's mother is NPD to the max. He and I are like refugees, building a healthier life together. [/quote]
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