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[quote=Anonymous]Perhaps the key to all of this is starting over with a fresh slate.  Sounds like both of you have been abusive to one another (emotionally) over the past couple of years.  If you can already see that you were at fault as well as your DH, then that may lead you to find some forgiveness for him.

Give this some time.  Remember, there is no need to make any decisions about the future of your marriage right now.  We often rush ourselves into making a quick decision because it feels awful to live in indecision -- we want to wrap things up one way or the other.

As your DH regains his composure and becomes the person that you knew and loved again, I imagine your feelings for him will return.  It will take considerable time to regain trust.

In the meantime, I would focus on a therapy that teaches the two of you skills to use when  you have arguments or fights.

You will never regret trying hard to make your marriage work.  Even if you end up divorcing, you will know that you are moving on with a really clear conscience.

Good luck to the two of you.[/quote]

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