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Reply to "How did you overcome past emotional abuse by your spouse?"
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[quote=Anonymous]I get how you feel, OP. We've been going through the same evolution for the past two years. We have periods where I am able to feel closer to him, and periods where I need to pull back and do more healing work on my own. It takes communication, patience, and care on both sides. He has to understand and you have to understand that you need time to heal. Therapy should help. He's made real changes, with therapy and meds, but that doesn't erase the damage done or your feelings about it. Plus you need a lot of time to go by where he shows his behavior, attitudes, and treatment of you to be consistently good for you. It will take time for you to feel safe again, to release anger and resentment, and be able to move forward. [/quote]
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