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[quote=Anonymous]We've been married eleven years and the past couple have been BAD. Both of us are at fault, but on his end, he has been very emotionally abusive. Swearing, name-calling, manipulation, degrading, etc. I felt like he had no respect for me or anything I value. He pretty much insulted everything about me at one point or another. I would pay for parking in DC when my commute would otherwise be free just so I could have time alone to cry. Then, he started seeing a therapist for some other issues, started meds, and I'm starting to see the man I married again. The thing is, I have so much resentment built up that I'm not sure I can make this work. I love sex but don't want to have sex with him. I feel so disconnected and, just, worn out. I know we need counseling, but I'm afraid. Afraid that it won't work, and afraid that it will. Any inspiration? Good or bad. [/quote]
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