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[quote=Anonymous]OP, I think people underestimate the degree which exhaustion can pull people away from being present. It sounds like the past few years have been horrifically exhausting (knowing what I know now about infertility, I understand how much work and stress goes into the whole process to have a child via in vitro or IUI. When you're tired, going to bed at 8:30 isn't a rejection; it's surviving a stressful period. To me, at least, sleep > sex. If I am well rested and relaxed, the sex comes back. I think focusing on being kind to each other, showing love through action and trying to make some real time and space to get some rest and relax without your kid or work would be huge. If you could arrange for a long (and I mean long 4 days at a minimum) weekend away without your daughter to relax and just spend some time together, it might be a way to refresh the energy. [/quote]
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