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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]In would try one more time before hiring. Since he says "we" make a list of weekly and monthly cleaning chores and split it. Then see if it gets done. I'd not then clearly you guys can't/don't want to do it yourselves. [/quote]

We have a cleaning service every two weeks.  Husband complains about it  -about the pickin up we have to do before she comes, about how messy the house is 3 days after she comes (toddler and we both work), AND that we're paying someone to do something "we" should do.  The first two don't seem to jibe with the third, but he doesn't get that.  Probably because part of him thinks "we" means "me," the one with the uterus.

Anyway - I told him we could cancel her if and only if we (he) made a list of chores and split it by task.  Hasn't taken me up on it.

So I'd say the same - make a list of everything that needs to get done, give him half the items and tell him if they aren't done by a certain time, you're hiring someone. [/quote]

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