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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]And before anyone asks, I'd stake just about everything on the position that he's not having an affair (I'm not sure when he could given the times he leaves and comes home from work).  Anyway, just wondering what I'm doing wrong here.[/quote]

(Lunchtime affair. Just saying it happens. It happened to me.)

My situation was almost exactly like yours -- infertility, IF treatment, two kids in quick succession. I empathize. It is difficult. My DH didn't cope with it really well, actually.

Beyond that, however, you guys really really need to talk and make time to connect sans child. And yes, YOU are going to have to make the effort to get the childcare. My DH has never organized childcare and rarely initiated dates. He's better now, but it isn't 50/50. It won't be.

Have you told him very forthrightly what you wrote here? Feeling disconnected, taken-for-granted, that it feels as though he doesn't want to spend any time with you? Honest conversations can help. They are hard. Very very hard. But worth it.[/quote]

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