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[quote=Anonymous]OP here...

[quote=Anonymous]OP, I get it.  I have two kids 2 and 4 and also gained a lot of weight during pregnancy.  I'm now in good shape but it took me deciding enough was enough.  My husband and I DID have regular (1-2x a week sex starting a few months postpartum with each kid).[/quote]

Yeah, see, we're not.  We tried, starting like 10 weeks PP?  Right after she got an IUD and the OB signed off on it.  It was immediately obvious it was extremely physically uncomfortable.

[quote=Anonymous]Have you openly told her how you feel, leaving the weight out of it?  Telling her that it's affecting your relationship, you feel rejected and disconnected, etc?[/quote]

Right, so, maybe I wasn't clear in my first post: I don't feel rejected and disconnected.  My wife feels rejected and disconnected.  I'm OK.  My wife wants me to be a horndog and ravish her even though by all outward appearances she doesn't want to or enjoy having sex.

I have left the weight out of it and it would take a lot to convince me that bringing it up would do more good than harm.  [/quote]

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