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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]No advice but just want to say I hope you can figure it out and that you're not alone.  My DH gained a lot of weight quickly due to a serious health issue and hasn't been able to lose it.  We're struggling with similar issues where he feels awful about his body and doesn't want sex but also hates that we're not having sex (I'm still attracted to him but he feels so self-conscious about his body now).  It's really tough and I haven't had much luck finding information in how to support a spouse when they are the ones that don't want the sex due to their confidence issues but also don't want to not be having sex.[/quote]
My DH  has gained weight, and I don't find it attractive. He has cut back some, but I think he needs to probably exercise *a lot* to get rid of the beer belly. I have stretched out skin from my pregnancies that no amount of exercise is going to get rid of. I have that horrible mother's apron. I don't find that attractive, either, so it does make me feel self conscious, and totally not sexy.  I just don't feel turned on either way.  No answers.[/quote]

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