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[quote=Anonymous]How are you "working on" these other issues? Are you seeing a couples therapist? If not, I highly suggest that you do, and that these chats become one of the issues you discuss. I think I could see how a man might see them as "not really cheating." But it obviously disturbs you. You guys have to talk about why he's doing this, what it means, how you both feel. I would approach it from a perspective of being curious about what this means to him and sharing with him, honestly, how you feel. Which I assume is not just distress that he is doing this but what it says about the lack of closeness between you. These kinds of talks are extremely difficult. I speak from experience here. A good counselor has helped me and my DH talk about very stressful, emotional things in a constructive way that I seriously doubt we would have been able to achieve on our own.[/quote]
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