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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The kids need counseling. If there is no formal custody agreement, the mom can and should take them.

in my experience, the court tries to minimize switching at night during a school week to minimize disruption for the kid.

But if mom had the kids in counseling, the therapist could make a recommendation on what's best for the kids too. [/quote]

No counselors will see them unless BOTH parents sign the consent form.  She has tried several different ones that were recommended by the lawyer.  I agree that counselling would be essential.  But H doesn't want them in counselling b/c they might say something less than flattering about him.  To be totally fair, I do think H will present himself (he has a lawyer too) very well.  H is highly educated and comes across as very rational and calm.  H has recently taken up volunteering with a teen tech group, and started being the asst coach with the sports teams that the kids are on.  Suddenly, H has lots of time for the kids when previously, they were 100% W's responsibility with H having veto/approval power over all decisions (those involving the kids and anything in the house or any $ spent -- to the penny).  But, as I said, H will present very well at the future hearing.... although he won't be able to change the past -- but maybe a judge won't care much about the past?  I don't know.  That's why I'm asking you all! :)[/quote]

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