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[quote=Anonymous]Look, it doesn't matter if the ceremony is important to you, or it was not important to other posters, or if they had different experiences. It matter to your SIL, and maybe your niece, period. Doesn't matter if it seems ridiculous to you; we all value different things. So you have to decide what matters to YOU and your DH. If the relationship matters, and you know it will be strained if you don't go, then go. If it can't get any worse, or you really don't care if it does, and it really is a burden to go, then your SIL will have to accept that. You send a nice gift, heartfelt regrets, and move on. Whatever you do, let her know ASAP. Don't drag it out. That just drives people who are kind of crazy even crazier. [/quote]
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