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[quote=Anonymous]Married at 25, kids at 27 & 29. Kids are now in the tween/teen years. For the most part, I have no regrets. Sometimes it stands out that I am younger than my kids friends parents, and I occasionally wish we had travelled more while we still had the disposable income and freedom. I had very difficult pregnancies and was not able to carry either DC to term, so I am thankful I went younger. My sister is 38 and waited to start trying and now has significant fertility problems. Since these run in my family, I am not at all sure I could have had kids if I had waited. Plus, we will be an empty nesters in mid to late 40s, and and done paying for college around 50-51. So we will still be young enough to travel and enjoy the income that will be freed up. And hopefully be young and healthy enough to be involved grandparents some day. It's a trade off, but in our case it worked. [/quote]
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