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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'd be more concerned that he's supporting his parents at 28. Aren't they in their 50s/early 60s with many more years of work left that they can still do?

I think it's best to marry someone as long as you're on the same page regarding finances. And you both seem penniless and not financially savvy.[/quote]

This is OP. His mother is a SAHM and his father made some bad investments so they are now broke. [/quote]

OP you seem to want a pat on the back or validation for your choice.

I expected this thread to be more critical and clicked with the intention to defend the man with no means. I think a lot of people believe in marrying primarily for love and personality, you aren't that special in that regard. I do think that the financial sitution you describe will have periods of extreme difficulty in your future. The day you have to choose between groceries for the in laws and groceries for your children may or may not arise but that would be a pretty hard day.

I think as long as you and he are on the same page then thats great. Is that what you want to hear? A stranger on the internet says they think it sounds like your relationship is just fine. [/quote]

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