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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]These "is my husband cheating" threads make me sad. Men cheating is kind of inevitable. (lot's of women cheat too) Not to say its ok, but we need a new normal it what we can expect from lifetime monogamy. As to OP, as someone upthread said - what do you want to do if he is cheating? Throw out the marriage? If so, then you can get to the bottom of this and walk away. If you want to keep your marriage, then decide if you want to ethically open it up or have some don't ask don't tell policy.[/quote] She already told him it was ok to cheat. When you stay with a cheater you've only showed them you will accept it. Do you really think a cheater is sorry, or sorry they got caught. She won't leave probably because of finances and security like many women. Of course he's cheating, you saw the email. I will also bet he's cheated here and there since the first time. Who is having dinner until 11:00 at night? Why didn't you get the name of the restaurant, and go with him. These are so obvious. After he cheated the first time you should have made random checks on him. No you don't need a PI, waste of money. You or a friend follow him from work, or if he is going out at night without you....find out where and who he is with visually. Don't say any more because now he knows you are on to him, and will try harder NOT to get caught. [/quote]
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