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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Been dating for a year.  He is 35, I am 30.  He is good looking, smart, good job, owns his condo.  Has never been engaged or lived with a girlfriend.  Has told me early on that he does not want children or to be married.  But . . . his actions say different.  He is warm with his friends' children, invites me over most weekends, we go on lots of trips together, and he is accompanying me to a wedding in a few weeks where he will meet my parents.  I think all this means he sees me as a permanent fixture, so do I go by what he says or what he does?  I was annoyed because he knows my lease is ending and would never discuss the idea of living together, even when I hinted.  Am I wasting my time?  [b]Why would he bother being a good boyfriend if this won't ever go anywhere[/b]?[/quote]

So he should treat you like crap because he doesn't want to get married?

I'm also concerned by your implication that you don't know how to explain or rather not explain your relationship to your parents.  A woman who wants to be married needs to have skills to establish  healthy boundaries with her parents.

You might be 30, but you have a lot of growing up to do OP.

I would take a year off from dating. Just One year. In that year get yourself to some therapy. You'll be a better future wife  and partner for it.[/quote]

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