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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Yep, worry about yourself, your dh, your baby and your aunt. Sounds like maybe you and your aunt can be there for each other? So sorry for your loss and for the situation you are in with your family. [/quote]

Thanks, pp. OP here. You're right. Though I can't say that this hasn't affected how I feel about my cousin. We used to be close but now I can't think of her and not be a little... I don't know. Is "turned off" the right word? If the shoe were on the other foot I would move heaven and earth to be there for her - especially if the reason we were in a tough spot was due to something I did. This is the second time she's done something like this too. We were at the beach together when my father died 15 years ago. I spent all that week driving two hours each way to see him in the hospital and she never once offered to come or help in any way. She was just annoyed that I ruined her vacation. Feels a little like history repeating itself. Only this time it's me and my aunt who are hurt, not just me. She's not normally a mean person so I guess that makes it a little more surprising and harder to accommodate. Maybe it's just how she deals with death. I'm just really hurt and disappointed.[/quote]

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