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Reply to "Anyone else ever feel just, plain sad that they got divorced?"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am not married, but getting married in a year. How do you not know that you two are so different before marriage?[/quote] As the OP, I can tell you that in hindsight, have the tough conversations. A woman I once worked with sat with her fiancé and asked: how do you handle money? if we needed to fix a roof and also had a vacation planned, would you cancel the vacation? how do you feel about raising kids religiously? how often do you want to see in-laws? where do you want to live (sounds basic, right?). Not the most romantic thing to do, but you need to trust your guts - is the other person telling you what you want to hear? being honest? To another commenter, not sure if I consider the divorce a total failure. The marriage failed, but to love someone and back, have a couple of great kids, be introduced to new things, cannot complain about that. [/quote]
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