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When do you plan on filing? Is this the plan, divorcing now? You say it's inevitable, but I think the timing is important in terms of what you do now.

My DCUM law degree tells me that moving out during a divorce is a bad thing. It puts the property in jeopardy somehow. You'll need to ask a real lawyer to learn the actual risks.

As for taking a breather with baby? Whatever works for you! Once divorce comes into play, you need to have a long view and a solid game plan. If this is one of the big bumps in a marriage, then do what you have to do to stay sane and able to deal with the problems in the relationship. If moving out for a short while gives you that necessary space, and H has no issue with DC going with you, then take that time to consider your options.

When I got divorced, I paid only $150 for the initial talk-through, which lasted a good little while. It was definitely worth the money. I learned so much about my options, but also, I learned a lot about where I stood in my own mind. It was well worth the money. Don't wait, if the fee is what's holding you back.
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