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[quote=Anonymous]You don't get to control other people. You can control what you do, what you think, and how you respond. You can talk this out with your father when you are calm and willing to both listen and speak your mind in a polite manner. While your need was great; he was not without needs and wants. Your children are ultimately your responsibility. You have a husband and a nanny. Perhaps your father was under the impression that the situation allowed you enough flexibility to meet the needs of all your children. I do know how you feel. When my mother was in the hospital dying our child stayed with the grandparents for a week until they called screaming in anger about wtf was taking her so long to die. They of course told us to leave her to die alone and pick up our kid. I get that you feel they have made a judgement on you that their support is wasted on you. It may be that this is the truth that you will have to work through. FWIW my husband nor I have anything to do with his parents anymore. It was a good choice for us. But we recognize that we only get to control ourselves; not others.[/quote]

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