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[quote=Anonymous]Hi there. Some quick stats about us. Married 23 years with 2 children. We have a great relationship with the exception of our sex life. Our sex has been limited to an occasional really quick session in the morning in the shower. As a matter of fact I can honestly say I can not remember the last time we actually "made love" in our own bed.

What is prompting me to write this is that I was just rejected again as I reached over to try and initiate something, anything. I got the good old...I'm too tired...Need to get some sleep...routine that has been the mantra for what seems like our entire marriage.

For as long as I can remember my wife has had a very low sex drive. I think that if I did not intititate it we would never have sex. Even as far back as I can remember...even on our honeymoon vacation....there was always some excuse as to why she was not in the mood.

Early on in our marriage I would actually get very upset and it would cause even more problems...so i kind of backed off. I thought maybe that would help. It did not.

I do love my wife and my kids so looking for sex outside of my marriage or cheating on her or something else drastic is not even an option.

I have tried planning getaway weekends with just myself and my wife....but my wife will always make an excuse why she is uncomfortable having the kids stay with a family friend for a night or 2 Even when the friend insists.

i am really not sure what the problem could be. When we actually do have sex I can tell she is enjoying it. That's what drive me nuts the most.

I am not sure what I can expect as advice but I would love to hear some ideas on what can be done to try and raise her sex drive.

I would love to hear some ideas.
Thanks in advance.[/quote]

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