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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm not getting your point on any of this. You are legally required to pay child support. I don't think she wanted the child support from you but wanted benefits. She is forced to file child support when she files for benefits. Then the state takes over with the child support. Child support and visitation are two different issues. You need to file and go to court for a visitation order. At 15, its hard to say what a judge will do if the child refuses to see you. You are in a no win situation.[/quote] NP here. I will add to this that it's clear you feel put-upon. But how do you think your son feels? He's 15 and only now has a father. He could very well be imagining and supposing things without his mother's possible biases. You need to include him in your family life as soon as possible. You fathered a child, and you are close to doing the right thing by filing for visitation. Stop blaming the mother. [/quote]
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