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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I really like that my DH dresses a bit frayed. He WAH and we are in creative fields with artsy friends, so a Brooks Brothers shirt would get laughed at way more than an old band t-shirt and worn out sneakers. [b] I know plenty of professional scientists, mathematicians, academics, and artists who look a bit messy on purpose[/b]. It's a signifier in their fields. If your DH is in any of those fields, you might just have to get over your hang-ups. [/quote] Uh no. I have three men with math PhDs in my family and all dress very well. Yes, their colleagues sometimes look like a mess, but you are not more respected if you dress poorly. There's less pressure for sure, but the ones who do a basic business-casual look WELL stand out a lot.[/quote] Uh, yes. That's my experience. It might be different than yours, but it's still valid. You don't know who I know. [/quote]
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